Christ is a spirit being that does not function solely based on personality/sexuality. 
Christ had certain nature's that have to override our manly natures.

In conforming to Christ, our personalities and sexualities have to be subject under the spirit.(Romans 12:2)
It does not mean these things are not there, were humans, our frame is still frail, but, they shouldn't be what we run by. 

That's why there are  commandments in church. 
If there's no need for certain nature's to change, there's no need for instructions and commandments. Many times, when commandments look difficult, it's because it's touching a nature that doesn't want to break.

True, Jesus Christ had sexuality and personality, but in his building, he didn't let them outweigh the spirit. While Christ had personality and sexuality, we are meant to prioritize our spiritual nature. This doesn't negate our humanity, but we should strive to let the spirit guide us above all else.

Same way we must not let this define us neither must we live by it (1 Corinthians 2:16)
That's why he was neither introvert nor extrovert. He was Christ and the Son of God.