Questions & Guidance

Sometimes I wished my husband was finer than he is, am I being lustful? I just wished he had more aura and demeanor.

I come from a family and church that believes so much in ancestral curses and village people syndrome, I have seen certain trends playout through generations, I am seeing certain traits in me, I am trying to ho0ld ojn to faith and not face them or concentrate on them like i used to back themn, but I am scared i don't have all the time to grow up before the trend catches up with me, what kind of prayer do I pray now? 

How do I differentiate between Faith and religion?

Can Christianity be fun?

Can people with very demanding career like lecturing, software-engineering, nursing e.t.c run the race of eternal life? these jobs are very demanding and time demanding, can a believer truly excel in the spirit while peaking in hiis career?

 I am a very fashinable lady, I love too look good(the a little bit short gowns ,blings, glows and the normal gen-z vibe look) but I love jesus, I pray when I should pray and follow meetings and everything brethren does, but somewhere I get the feeling like I am not a spoiritual person from my brethren. I s looking good bad?

I am not emotionally in-tune with the person the lord want me to marry,I even have more liking for other sisters/brothers than him. The only thing I have as a proof is that he is the one my spirit draws out but eveyr other thing is odd? 

How do I get over an unclean memory even though I no longer engage it or have anything to do with it again, especially when it flashes at me when I am not even planning to think about it?

How do I get over a heart break?

 Must I leave my Job when the lord calls me into ministry?

What is ministry? must God call a man specifically or can any concerend and zealous person get into ministry out of zeal and love?

  What if I don't like my Pastor?

How can a man add to faith, virtue, to virtue, knowledge, to knowledge temperance... then it means these entities are specific and must be recognized, how do you add them? How do you recognize them? How do you know you are lacking in one? 
"And beside this, giving all diligence, add to your faith virtue; and to virtue knowledge;
And to knowledge temperance; and to temperance patience; and to patience godliness;
And to godliness brotherly kindness; and to brotherly kindness charity."
— 2 Peter 1:5-7 (King James Version)

Can my spirit man be weak? if yes does that mean he is not perfect? or is his perfection not the ultimate perfection of eternal life? what kind of perfection or life did my spirit receive at new birth? is my spirit growing ? or my soul is just to match up to where my Spirit is?

What happened at new birth? (What am I receiving? and what am I ultimately going to receive?)